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Speaker tells Byron-Bergen seniors about drunken driving accident that claimed boyfriend's life

By Howard B. Owens

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Press release:

Horrifying. Terrible. Stressful. Horrible.

Emotions ran high as Cady Glor spoke to Byron-Bergen juniors and seniors on May 10 to share the long-lasting effects of how a drunk driver changed her life.

Glor was smitten with Chris Blake, her high school sweetheart and boyfriend of eight years. In 2014, Blake was a passenger in a vehicle and his friend behind the wheel was intoxicated. An accident occurred which put Blake into the hospital with a broken neck.

“I remember the moment my mom called me to tell me that Chris was in the hospital,” said Glor. “It was like what you see in a movie. I fell on the floor. I was screaming and crying.”

“Seeing someone lying in a hospital bed with a breathing machine, someone who was so strong, is just devastating,” added Glor. “I still see it in my nightmares today.”

Blake spent months in the hospital but was confined to a wheelchair, was a quadriplegic, and had a tracheostomy tube to help him breathe. His body deteriorated from the strong physique he once had.

Talks of Blake going home began to happen as the summer ended and Blake knew that he wanted to share his story with schools, and help students understand the impact their decisions could have. Unfortunately, Blake ended up passing away in Aug. 22, 2014, after an infection entered his blood. Glor has since taken on the task of carrying out his wish and speaking to schools.

Byron-Bergen Jr./Sr. High School Principal Patrick McGee invited Cady in to speak to students because he knew that her message would resonate with students.

“Cady is such a courageous woman,” McGee said. “She told a story that is unfortunately all too familiar in our society and did it in a way that hit home with our students. There were very few dry eyes in our auditorium.”

Glor told the students that while she doesn’t know any of them, she cares about all of them. She encouraged the students to not drive drunk, to not get into a car with someone who is drunk, and to call someone for a ride no matter what the time or circumstance.

“Knowing that his death was preventable makes it a thousand times worse,” Glor said. “He chose to get into the car with a drunk driver and he paid the ultimate price.”

Sheila West

Cady, I am so very sorry for your less and the evidence that you are a strong woman is the fact that you told your story. God Bless you for sharing your story. I pray that each and every student took what you said to heart and will not drive while under the influence or get in a vehicle with someone who is intoxicated and/or under the influence of drugs. As parents, we always want to believe our kids will make the right choices but we also worry they may not and one error in judgement can lead to them paying that ultimate price.

May 16, 2016, 12:07pm Permalink
Lisa Woltz

Cady Glor, you have my sincere apologies for your loss. Speaking for Chris Blake is something these students need. I applaud you from every fiber of my being as a mother.

Students will understand when they see from someone who has suffered a loss and understands the pain. Trust me, I know all too well. Not the same as your loss Sweet Cady. This isn't about my teen though. Keep on spreading this message to every student you can. Go to as many schools, every speaking engagements as you can. You have made a world of difference even if it's 99% of those students.

God bless you.

May 17, 2016, 3:45pm Permalink

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