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Rita L. Graham (nee Stefanski)

By Lisa Ace


Rita L. Graham, age 87, passed away on Saturday, June 1st, 2019 at Strong Memorial hospital after a brief illness.  Rita is survived by her loving husband, Robert J. Graham of almost 64 years, along with their six children; Robert (Cher), Donald, (Doreen), Thomas (Eva), James (Lisa Wall), David, Susan (Kristopher) Kautz, numerous grandchildren and great grandchildren.  Also surviving are sister Patricia Richmond of NH, two sisters-in-law Jean Johnson and Lynne Graham both of Buffalo, NY along with many nieces and nephews.  Rita was a daughter of the late Stephen and Victoria Stefanski of Buffalo, NY.  She was preceded in death by her siblings; Adeline, Stanley, Raymond, Daniel, Eleanor and Robert.


Rita was an avid gardener and a member of the Attica Garden Club.  She also enjoyed Saturday afternoon euchre at the Warsaw Moose Club.  For many years, the entire family enjoyed camping together in the 1000 Islands.  Holidays were treasured, Halloween was especially fun with everyone anticipating Rita's costume.   Bob and Rita's remarkable bond, based on boundless love and companionship generated so many splendid memories including travel to Hawaii, Alaska, Ireland and family cruises to the Caribbean.  
 
Bob and Rita spent the last 26 years wintering in Palm Springs, Florida,  Going to the ocean, shuffleboard and club activities were favorite pastimes. 
 
Rita's devotion to family inspired all of her children to live nearby.  Community was so important, she dearly loved and took great pride in her small town of Alexander.  A beautiful, classy lady with old fashioned values, Rita maintained an impeccable home and stunning gardens.  Most of all, Rita cherished her time spent with family.  Her sweetness, laughter and smile were contagious and will be sadly missed by her family and friends.

The Graham family welcomes you to attend a memorial service at the Alexander United Methodist Church on Sunday, June 9th, 2019 at 2 PM.  A celebration of Rita's life will immediately follow at the Attica Golf Club from 3:30 to 7:30. 

Contributions/Donations may be made to the Gateway Hospice Home of Attica NY.

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